“Why Stanford Fights Cancer” – our series highlighting why members from all walks of our Stanford community fight cancer, in their own words. If you would like to let us know why you want to fight cancer, fill out the form at http://bit.ly/whyifight. Today, we hear from Bianca Kapoor ’14, our eager-to-learn Relay For Life Chair-in-training!

Bianca Kapoor '14
My vovô(grandfather) came for a short but sweet visit to the United States for the first time just before my junior year in high school, and while he was with us we were happy and healthy. Within two months of his return to his native Brazil, in a very quick turn of events, we lost him to stomach cancer, a battle he had been fighting for a few years. I was in school and I didn’t get the chance to go see him in his last few days. Three years later, I still haven’t been back to Brazil and the closure of his passing remains somewhat elusive. Instead, found other ways of remembering and honoring my vovô.
It wasn’t until last year when I walked through the overwhelming Activities Fair during Fall quarter that Relay For Life seemed like something I could really use. I’ve never done Relay For Life before coming to Stanford. I had heard about it and I knew people loved it, but I had never actually spent the night fighting cancer myself. With my vovô‘s memory in mind, Relay for Life became I really wanted to do.
Knowing that cancer skips a generation in my family, I understand the possibility of getting it myself. However, there is also the very real chance that someone I love will get it. I relay and fight cancer not just for me, but for the ones I love and have loved.
Last year I had the opportunity to co-chair the Entertainment committee for Relay For Life at Stanford. While I spent the day of the event dancing to our playlist and checking in performers, I also found myself thinking about my grandfather and cancer in a way I had never done before. When the rain hit us that night, it left me discouraged that all our hard work to make performances, music, and games seemed for nothing. I vividly remember standing, cold and wet, under a tent shivering and watching the rain pour down on our movie screen that we had fought for so had and now was unusable. When the morning came, though, the sun showed another day and I awoke to my playlist still going and people still walking the track. I was no longer tired, despite having slept only a couple of hours, and I was ready to do some walking myself. I walked more that morning in three hours than in the previous twenty-one. That morning, I felt ready to take on anything, and I can’t wait to feel that way again this year. As the new Chair-in-training, I am also feeling incredibly lucky to be able to give other people like you the same feeling that I had that morning.
-Bianca Kapoor, ’14
Relay For Life Chair-in-training
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